Wholesome Healing Counseling Services
Maternal Mental Health Counseling for moms experiencing burnout & identity changes virtually across New York
Alexandra Quinn
Maternal Mental Health Specialist
Proudly serving Millennial moms across New York State.
Motherhood is everything you’ve ever wanted, but nothing you ever expected.
Wholesome Healing Counseling offers specialized individual therapy for mothers navigating identity changes, relationship strains, overwhelm, and burnout. Utilizing proven modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, I provide HIPAA-compliant telehealth services statewide.
I’m Alex Quinn, a Hudson Valley mom of 2 and New York based Therapist. I support overwhelmed Millennial moms of young kids struggling with burnout and resentment, to parent more calmly and confidently, and reconnect with their partners and themselves.
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You never questioned becoming a mother. It has always been something you’ve wanted, but now that it’s here, you’re wondering why you feel out of touch with the picturesque expectations you had of motherhood. Somewhere between changing diapers and keeping house, you’ve begun to question who you are outside of this. You spend all your days structuring schedules for your little ones, supporting your family at home, and ensuring everyone else is well taken care of. At the end of it all… there’s nothing left for you.
Here’s what I need you to know…
That girl you miss? She’s still in there. And she deserves the attention you so lovingly and willingly give to your family.
You do not need to prove yourself as a mother in order to get the support you need. I’m here to help you show up - authentically and unapologetically - for yourself.
What sets me apart from other therapists?
Hey, I’m Alex.
I’m a mom of 2 young kids, parenting without a village. After the birth of my firstborn, I struggled significantly adjusting to motherhood. I’ll admit… I was grieving my “old life.” I felt shame and guilt - I felt immature for feeling that way. I spiraled under the belief that I was taking my child for granted.
Then came the intrusive thoughts, the loss of self, the body image adjustments, the marital stress, and the disconnection from my friends without kids.
I felt alone on an island - and nothing causes more resentment than feeling alone when you are surrounded by people who don’t know how to help.
But I do know how to help. Not only do I see you, but I am you.
Find out how the moms I work with embrace their new identity and repair their relationships with their partners and their own self.
Alexandra Quinn, LCSW (License #092864)
Bring your baby, bring your breast pump
Here, you are safe to be yourself. I like to describe my therapy style as “just two moms having a chat… sometimes over a cup of coffee.”
The luxury of doing therapy virtually with another mom? I will never judge you for folding laundry, enjoying a cup of coffee, nursing your infant, or yes, even pumping, during session. I’ve seen (and welcomed) all of it.
As a mom, I understand that time is limited and setting aside an hour for ourselves is tough. If this is your only time to tend to your other needs, by all means, use your hour however you need to. I’m here to support you in every way I can.
Motherhood is one of the most significant shifts you will experience.
Have you been… ?
Lying awake at night thinking about all the ways you “messed up” as a mom, today
Writing and re-writing mental lists that include everyone’s appointments, events, and deadlines
Looking in the mirror and feeling like you hardly recognize yourself
Resenting your partner for not being the “default parent” who carries half the responsibility you do
You may feel stuck - like you’re drowning while trying to keep everyone else afloat.
Does this sound familiar? Then, we’re probably a good match.
HERE’S WHAT WILL CHANGE FOR YOU THROUGH OUR WORK TOGETHER:
You will be able to get the help you need without having to ask
You will gain confidence in your decision-making as a mother
You will begin to shift the focus back to yourself and shamelessly pour into your own cup
You will begin to recognize yourself again, and admire this new version of you that never existed before
What Other Moms are Saying
“I can honestly say that Alex has been one of the most steady, supportive, and impactful presences in my life. She has walked alongside me through some of my most difficult and painful experiences, as well as moments of growth and strength, always meeting me with empathy, patience, and genuine care.”
- Current Patient
“What sets Alex apart is her ability to balance deep compassion with honesty. She creates a space where I feel truly seen and understood, while also gently challenging me in ways that have helped me grow.”
-Current Patient
“She didn’t just listen—she helped me understand what I was experiencing and gave me strategies that I could actually use in real life. Over time, I felt more in control, more aware of my patterns, and more capable of handling situations that used to feel overwhelming.”
-Former Patient
“Alex’s consistency, insight, and unwavering support over the years have made a lasting difference in who I am today. I’m incredibly grateful for the work we’ve done together and would highly recommend her to anyone looking for a therapist who is not only skilled, but deeply committed to her clients’ healing and growth.”
- Current Patient
“I’m so incredibly grateful for Alex and the support she gave me during my postpartum journey. She helped me work through emotions I didn’t fully understand and reassured me that what I was feeling was valid. I can honestly say she helped me get through one of the most challenging times in my life, and I’m so thankful I found her. I would highly recommend her to any new mom needing support.”
-Former Patient
You've spent long enough putting everyone else first. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness — it's the most powerful thing you can do for yourself and your kids. Let's work together to help you feel like you again.
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Contact me to see if we’re a good fit!
Frequently Asked Questions
Still have questions? Take a look at the FAQ or reach out anytime. If you’re feeling ready, go ahead and book your free consultation.
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I am a virtual therapist for any woman in New York State who is seeking support during the child-raising years. Our virtual sessions are one hour long.
I have experience treating postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety, focusing specifically on supporting moms who are overwhelmed and burnt out.
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Getting started is simple. Reach out through the contact form or schedule a free consultation— if we are a good fit, we can schedule your initial session during our consultation call.
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You can reach me anytime via the contact page or email. You can book a free consult through my website. I aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.
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I am an Out-of-Network therapist, which means I do not accept insurance. You are welcome to contact your insurance company and ask if out-of-network benefits are available for therapy. If so, I can provide you with a Superbill to be submitted to your insurance company for reimbursement.
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Yes! As a mom myself, I know that there is very little free time when we are alone. You are more than welcome to have your kids with you on the call if needed.
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Absolutely. Because these are virtual sessions, you can feel free to walk and talk, do your dishes, or handle any other tasks you may need to during our call. I’m flexible!
